Relationship Review Quiz

If you’re a couple looking to create a breakthrough in your relationship and you can relate to these  statements, you’re in the right place.

  • We want to be more connected with each orther
  • We want to communicate better
  • We want to resolve problems and put them behind us once and for all
  • We want to be more connected and happier together
  • We are open to new solutions and willing to take the steps to make it happen

If this sounds like you, please continue by taking the Couples Quiz below. We’ve designed this short quiz to help you see two things:

  1. Where your relationship is strong and how you can leverage those strengths
  2. What steps you can take to experience better communication, improved problem solving skills, more connection and more happiness together.

Once you take the assessment, check your inbox right away to see your score and some important next steps based on where you are in your relationship today. My intention is that you will come away from this experience feeling clear, hopeful and ready to take powerful action to grow your relationship.

0 = We haven’t addressed this at all. 4 = We’ve given this some attention.
7 = We’re doing really well here. 10 = We’ve totally nailed this.

I. Vision & Goals

1. We have a clear, compelling, written vision for our life together.

2. We have clear, agreed upon goals for all areas of our life together.

3. Our actions completely support our joint and individual goals.

4. We have a strong belief in our relationship and our ability to achieve our goals and dreams.

5. We know we can count on each other “in sickness and health, good times and bad times”.

II. Connection

1. We strongly look forward to our time together and thoroughly enjoy it.

2. We have a clear strategy for maintaining our emotional intimacy.

3. Our sexual relationship is robust and exactly how we want it to be.

4. We have a strong desire to grow our connection with each other.

5. We accept and celebrate that we have differences.

III. Communication

1. We prioritize having conversations daily.

2. We listen carefully and fully to each other during conversations.

3. We listen for understanding rather than listening just to respond.

4. We skillfully notice each other’s emotions and address them.

5. We each take responsibility for making conversations interesting and personal.

IV. Resolving Conflicts

1. We have an agreed upon process for resolving conflicts and we follow it.

2. We have scheduled weekly times to discuss issues and stick to it.

3. We skillfully resolve the issues we discuss.

4. We argue respectfully without shame or blame.

5. We have strategies and use them for managing ourselves when we get angry during conversations.

V. Your Commitment Level (0 = not very committed, 10 = I am very committed!)

1. We’re ready and willing to discover ways to improve our relationship.

2. We highly value the offer of a private strategy session and would like to schedule one soon.

3. We know the importance of investing emotionally and financially to experience greater relationship happiness.

Please provide your name and best email
to receive your Report of Findings.

Please select the option that best describes you.